Safety Tips

Your Safety Matters

Finding love should be exciting, not risky. Follow these tips to protect yourself while using Marry Me Juliet and meeting new people.

Important Disclaimer

While we work hard to maintain a safe community, we cannot guarantee the identity or behavior of any user. You are responsible for your own safety when interacting with others, both online and in person. Trust your instincts and prioritize your wellbeing.

Online Safety

Protect Your Personal Information

Never share your home address, workplace, financial information, or other sensitive details with someone you haven't met in person multiple times. Scammers use personal information for identity theft.

Watch for Red Flags

Be wary if someone: refuses to video chat, has inconsistent stories, professes love very quickly, asks for money, or pressures you to move off the platform quickly.

Video Chat First

Before meeting in person, have a video call to verify they are who they say they are. If they consistently avoid video calls, that's a red flag.

Stay on the Platform

Keep conversations on Marry Me Juliet until you're comfortable. Scammers often try to move to other platforms quickly to avoid detection.

Meeting In Person

Meet in Public Places

For your first several dates, meet in busy public places like coffee shops, restaurants, or public parks. Don't meet at your home or theirs.

Tell Someone Your Plans

Always tell a friend or family member where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back. Consider sharing your live location.

Arrange Your Own Transportation

Drive yourself, use rideshare, or take public transit. Don't rely on your date for transportation, especially early on.

Watch Your Drink

Never leave your drink unattended. If you do, get a new one. Drink responsibly and stay aware of your surroundings.

Trust Your Instincts

If something feels wrong, it probably is. Don't feel obligated to stay. It's always okay to leave or end the date early.

Financial Safety

NEVER Send Money

Never send money to someone you've met online, no matter how compelling their story. Romance scammers are skilled manipulators who create elaborate stories to steal money.

Common Scam Stories

Scammers often claim: medical emergencies, travel problems, business troubles, or need help with customs fees. These are lies designed to steal your money.

Don't Share Financial Information

Never share bank account details, credit card numbers, Social Security numbers, or other financial information with matches.

Report Suspected Scams

If someone asks for money, report them immediately. You may also report to the FTC at reportfraud.ftc.gov.

If Something Goes Wrong

If You're in Immediate Danger

Call 911 (US) or your local emergency services immediately.

Block and Report

Use our block and report features to protect yourself and others. We take all reports seriously.

Document Everything

If you've been a victim of a crime, save messages and any evidence. This can help law enforcement.

Get Support

  • • National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
  • • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
  • • FBI Internet Crime: ic3.gov
  • • FTC Fraud Reports: reportfraud.ftc.gov

Consent & Boundaries

Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and clear communication.

  • Consent must be freely given, specific, informed, and can be withdrawn at any time
  • Respect when someone says no or sets boundaries
  • Never pressure someone into meeting, sharing photos, or any activity
  • If someone makes you uncomfortable, you can always block and report
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